I truly believe that people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. God, or whomever you may believe in, has a plan for you. When certain things happen to you, you may not understand the reason why it is happening at the time, however, it may occur to you 10 days from now or even 10 years from now why the event or series of events took place. The question is, how do YOU make the decision to let go or keep going????? Should you be in this situation for a lifetime or should it have been a "one night" or "one vacation" stand?
Case in point....
I have a friend that I would say is the "good girl" of all my friends. If you even look at a man the wrong way and you are committed, married, or even strongly LIKE someone, and you start looking at someone else, she is the first to check you. Her motto is "evaluate your current situation and figure out IS IT WORTH IT?" In 13 years of marriage she has NEVER cheated! Well, my girl has fallen by the wayside. A year ago she met a man while she was vacationing with her extended family (supposedly her husband had to stay behind for work- for the record, he is a bit of a jerk....)she has been completely turned out. Not only did her sexy vacation man "woo" her and they had AMAZING sex. This man lives outside the US and she recently after 11 months of great phone, email conversation, and great phone sex, went to visit him!!!!!!!! She AND he, because he recently called me ( I guess I am an accomplice) to let me know that she is an amazing woman and he feels that I have an amazing friend, felt the need to let me know that he will never hurt her and if HE WAS NOT MARRIED AS WELL, she would be the one for him!!!!!!!! How crazy is this? She loves her husband and he loves his wife, however, they love each other. Is this real or fantasy? Maybe because they do not get to deal with the day to day intricacies of a marriage maybe this is why life is so good. Who knows! The one thing that I can tell you is that she is a new woman. After her overseas trip, she has a glow and has never been happier. She said that this, in some twisted way, may help her marriage. She appreciates what she has, but, she now has her own little secret and when her husband really pisses her off, she has something to reflect on. It also may hurt her marriage..... She may be thinking and fantasizing about "vacation sweetie" more than she should! What are your thoughts? Feel free to post!!!!
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I think you can. Just depends if you can find at least one...
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